FROM ZERO TO SUCCESS

I once have read this from a sport book talking about sportsmanship psychology about winning and losing the game.

There are a huge different between EXPECTING and HOPING to win. It not just the "wording" are different but everything . From the mindset , idea, action, excitement and everything. The only thing that same between the loser and winner, their goal is the same , "WINNING".

I believe no people in the earth want to become poor, unimportant, sick or dont have money . In the same time i also believe that everyone want to become success, healthy, wealthy, rich and have much time to spend their love one , say yes if you agree :-). But, the question is a lot of people still didnt get what their want most. Why some people who are excel in their education when we are in high school still drive their "BANK CAR" and some of the people who being said will not have a good job in the future drive sport car ? Why ? Have you ask yourselves about that?

The answer is simple . It's how you thinking about winning and about reaching your goal, your dream . ARE YOU EXPECTING TO WIN OR HOPING TO WIN ? This two mindset is totally different . From the inside and the outside , from the thought to the action. People who are expecting to win is the person who will do whatever it take to win . Another term for winner is DO OR DIE. They do with all their heart, even though they meet failure on their way to reach their dream , but the failure is not going to stop them . They failure will become their springboard to reach their dream faster (we call it temporary failure , or i seldom hear to call it as the wrong route to go)

While in other way, the loser who also have their DREAM , is only hoping to win. What is hoping ? Hoping is 50% win and 50% lose (sometimes much lower than that percentage). They fight for their dream half heart and the result is also half heart. If they meet some small failure then their start to thinking that the thing that they do cant make any result for them , even-tough there are people who already success that start from scratch. Then they go to other thing, then next thing after thing until then they become expert on jumping from this to that and telling people that the thing that they do , cannot work (They become what we call S.N.I.O.P- syndrome negative influence by other people).

For me, winning or to become success is not an option , it is a must . We will get there as long as you continue what you have already start. :-).

"PERSISTENCE" is one of the key of success. Along the way in our journey to make the dream come true, we ll face a lot of obstacles. The first resistance may come from the person who close to us (our family, our wife or husband, our cousin, our friend). They know us more than other people and they think that our dream will become a disaster in our life and the easy way to live is to have a secure life . But , dream has it price that we have to pay .The question is , "Are we willing to pay the price of the dream ?" Many people stop in this part. They don't willing to pay the price .

The journey to the dream is an unknown path. It may be easy or harder than what we think. We must have the courage to walk this path. We must dare to fail but fail fast, learn from these failure and improve our way to success.

Back 2008, i think that become an engineer is my dream job. So, i get my degree and become an electrical and electronic engineer. Im so happy with my job. Along the way, i have a dream to make my mother happy, i want to build house for her, bring to vacation and more but, after a year in my profession , i still havent accomplish any one of these dream. Then i realize that if i still an employee, i ll not have the money that i want after reading one of famous and my favorite writer , Robert Kiyosaki. He talk about kiyosaki quadrant that i ll talk in other topic. Realize that, i make a lot of research and find out that one of the way to make my dream come true is to change my quadrant from E to B quadrant (i ll talk about it later) and one of the B quadrant is network marketing. So here i am, after resign as engineer doing MONAVIE as my platform to reach my dream. :-).

I think this is for today, i ll post more in the future and i promise you a quality contain (forgive my broken English - now working to improve it ) .